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Laws of Shabbat for Beginners

Laws of Shabbat for Beginners

In one breath, G-d said both, “Guard and remember the Shabbat. “Love of God, time with family, reconnecting with friends and with oneself — all these fulfil the commandment to “remember” Shabbat.

But these beautiful concepts must also be grounded in a foundation of strength, a structure that will provide the soil in which these ideas can take hold, root and blossom.

This foundation is the commandment to “guard” Shabbat, as detailed in halacha, Jewish law.

Yet the word halacha does not literally translate as “law,” for it comes from the root halach, which means “to go,” “to walk.” Halacha means “a path.” It is not about cold do’s and don’t’s, but about movement. When one learns the laws in a deep way and applies them within a Jewish lifestyle, halacha becomes not a restriction, but a direction. And when paired with the beauty of “remember,” the coupling opens up a world without limitations — a world of endless depth and opportunity.

The two commandments, to guard and to remember, were said by G-din one breath, for one without the other would be empty.

If you are in a relationship and you hear from the other person the words “I love you,” there is a nice feeling. But suppose the person never did anything, never demonstrated the love in any way. Words without action are merely… words.

If you want to make real the idea that G-dis Creator, you must stop creating. Otherwise it is a beautiful concept that remains in the theoretical.

On Shabbat the world is complete. I am complete. Shabbat is the weekly reminder of this completeness. We recognize it, but the only way to make it happen is to live it, to emulate it.

When G-dsays, “Six days a week you will do all your work,” He is not just talking about making the office deadlines. He is talking about us, and how we strive to work on ourselves.

Shabbat is there, calling us to where we want to be: self-actualization; nature; oneness; completion. The ideas are within reach; grasping them means heading in the right direction. The path is halacha.


The Basics

Where do all these laws come from?

Remember the part in the movie The Ten Commandments when the Jewish people leave Egypt and are wandering through the desert? At one point, G-dinstructs them to build a Mishkan, the portable sanctuary that would hold, among other things, the tablets of the Ten Commandments. This Mishkan would be carried by the Jewish people throughout their journey.

Our tradition tells us that through understanding the Mishkan, we will understand Shabbat.

This was to be the central dwelling place of God’s presence. It would bring God’s presence into this world. Any activity used in forming this house of the Creator would be considered acts of creation.

On Shabbat we also strive to bring God’s presence into this world. We remove ourselves from creating in order to reaffirm that we do not have mastery over our lives. Someone else is in charge.

To learn what is considered “creating,” we study the principles found in the original creation of the Mishkan. Our tradition identifies 39 categories.

There are many books that discuss these concepts and list the laws of Shabbat in detailed form. They cover almost any possible occurrence on Shabbat and how properly to deal with it. (For example, “A framed picture falls from the wall. Am I allowed to rehang it on Shabbat?”)

However, there are very basic areas of law that deal with action, or refraining from action, that occur on an average Shabbat (assuming you are not marooned on a desert island, or on a ship at sea).


We are not allowed to apply heat to things in order to change them in any way. Loaves of bread were formed and baked for the Mishkan; thus we refrain from any sort of cooking on Shabbat.

How to approach it: It’s basically a matter of cooking ahead and keeping things warm, either by using a blech (cover for the stovetop) or by using a slow cooker. Water is kept hot using an urn that is plugged in before Shabbat. To properly keep this important aspect of Shabbat, careful study is required.



Fires cannot be started or extinguished on Shabbat, and driving (which sparks and burns fuel) falls under this category.

How to approach it: Walk! There is no greater feeling than just plain walking. It’s a total slowdown, giving one time to think, look around, breathe. It’s amazing what we miss, as we zoom by life in an automobile. Enjoy the break from having to go everywhere, and just enjoy being.

If your synagogue is a real hike away, you may want to drive there Friday night before Shabbat begins and park the car there until Saturday night. Then there is just the one-way walk back home Friday night. During the day, the walk to and from shul seems a pleasure.

Plan to visit friends and neighbours nearby, or arrange to meet with them halfway, or at the park on Shabbat afternoon.

Handling Money

On Shabbat, we avoid weekday activities such as shopping, and thus money is Muktzah, among the objects that have no purpose on Shabbat and thus are not to be moved. Bills (which of course can’t be paid) are also muktzah.

How to approach it: Put away wallets, purses, and loose change before Shabbat begins.


There is a prohibition against using electrical appliances on Shabbat – such as telephones, radios, and television. It also happens to be an area that, when observed, provides one of the most pleasurable aspects of Shabbat. The island of peace that you wish to reach can be achieved only through the beautiful silence of no ringing phones.

How to approach it: You may want family and friends to know that you will be unavailable by phone during Shabbat. People usually catch on quickly and just take it in stride that they must wait until Saturday night to call. If you really want a Shabbat atmosphere, unplug the phones so you won’t be disturbed by the ringing.



Indoor lighting is also generated using electricity, which is forbidden on Shabbat.

How to approach it: Decide which lights should be left on and which left off before Shabbat begins. You may want to tape certain light switches in high-traffic areas, such as bathrooms, so they aren’t inadvertently turned off or on. (Sleepy trips to the bathroom in the middle of the night often end in an automatic flip of the switch!)

Timers can be used to automatically turn lights on and off throughout Shabbat, as long as they are preset before Shabbat begins.

Toilet Paper

Things that are attached — through glue, sewing, or even perforation — cannot be unattached for a purpose on Shabbat. This would involve taking something in one form and carefully dividing it up into another for some use, thus creating something anew. Paper towels also fall into this category.

How to approach it: Pre-tear toilet paper before Shabbat, or use tissues. For paper towels, pre-tear what you might need, or use paper napkins.

Watering plants/picking flowers

If everything is complete on Shabbat and we are refraining from things that indicate that we have mastery over the world, then causing things to live (or in some cases causing things to die) would, of course, be avoided. Thus, once Shabbat begins, we do not water our plants (nor place cut flowers in water on Shabbat).

How to approach it: Make sure flowers are put in water ahead of time and that plants are watered before Shabbat. If someone happens to bring you cut flowers after Shabbat has begun, thank them and simply put them in a vase without water. They’re usually fine; just add water once Shabbat is over.

Writing/erasing/tearing letters

Writing, drawing, erasing, even tearing through letters on a package are avoided. Pens, pencils, erasers, etc., thus fall under the category of Muktzah.


How to approach it: Put away pencils, markers, pens, etc., so you won’t come to use them. Any packages or bottle caps that are to be used on Shabbat should be pre-opened (or carefully opened on Shabbat), so as not to tear through any letters.

Important note: When it comes to human life, everything is done to save it. Thus one can drive on Shabbat to bring someone in an emergency situation to a hospital. Phones can be used, and so forth. The laws of Shabbat are put aside to save a life.


Shabbat – Heaven on Earth


For three millennia, Shabbat has been the Jewish oasis in time. Find out what’s behind this weekly day off.

Shabbat is the name for the seventh day of the week. The Torah tells us, “Six days you shall work, and the seventh day is Shabbat, for the Lord your God.” (Deut. 5:13)

In Judaism, the other days of the week (Sunday, Monday, etc.) don’t have special names of their own. Rather, we refer to these weekdays as “the first day toward Shabbat,” “the second day toward Shabbat,” etc. Each day is known only by its relation to Shabbat. In this way, we remind ourselves daily of the centrality of Shabbat.

We anticipate its arrival. We set aside special food and clothing for it. Shabbat is at the very centre of Jewish consciousness. It is repeated more times than any other mitzvah in the Torah, and it is the only ritual observance which is part of the Ten Commandments.

Observant Jews will tell you that Shabbat is one of the greatest sources of inspiration. And, paradoxically, Shabbat is often the greatest hurdle to those testing the waters of Judaism.

What is it about Shabbat that makes it so important to the Jewish people, so powerful to the individual ― and yet so mystifying to those who haven’t experienced it?

Taste of the “World To Come”

The Midrash says: When the Jewish people were gathered at Mount Sinai to receive the Torah, G-d told them that Heaven would be their reward for keeping the commandments. The Jews asked God, “How do we know that Heaven is so great? How about a free sample to see if it’s worthwhile?” (Apparently, Jews have always been astute businessmen.)

G-d wasn’t upset. He knew that Heaven is where we experience the pure and unadulterated pleasure of the infinite God. So He said, “No problem. I’ll send you a sample. Shabbat.”

Thus the Sages say: Shabbat is “a taste of Heaven on Earth.” If Heaven is pure spirituality, then Shabbat is a taste of that experience.

The Two Shabbat Commandments

There are two central commandments which teach us how to observe Shabbat.

The first commandment is not to work on Shabbat. The Torah says, “Six days you shall work, and the seventh day is Shabbat to the Lord your God. [On that day] you shall not do any melacha” (Exodus 20:9). (Melacha is a type of work which we will define later.)

The second is a positive action commandment to rest on Shabbat: “And on the seventh day you shall rest” (Exodus 23:12).

One commandment is not to do any melacha, and the second commandment is to rest. But why do we need both? If the Torah tells us “not to work,” obviously we’re going to get a lot of rest and relaxation. Why would we need a second, positive action commandment telling us to rest?

The goal of Shabbat is not simply to put our feet up, get a suntan and sip cocktails.

If the Torah has to give us two separate commandments, then clearly, one is not the automatic, instantaneous result of the other. The fact that refraining from work is not sufficient to automatically include rest, implies that the “resting” we do on Shabbat must be something extra, something that goes beyond the natural outcome of not working. Apparently the goal of Shabbat is not simply to put our feet up, get a suntan and sip cocktails.

So what is the real point of these commandments?

Why “No Work” On Shabbat?


In “Breakfast of Champions,” a novel by Kurt Vonnegut, the main character of the story is in a bar one evening nursing a drink. All of a sudden, he’s consumed by anxiety. Someone he very much wants to meet, yet is somehow threatened by, has just walked into the bar and is coming closer and closer to his table. He turns to hide his face. Suddenly, he feels a tap on his shoulder. As he turns around, he comes face-to-face with the author of the book in which he is the main character.

His deepest fears have just become reality. Having cherished the hope that he is master of his own destiny, he now has to face the fact that he lives and dies by a stroke of the author’s pen.

Vonnegut’s story depicts the conflict faced by every human being.

On one hand, we all yearn to make contact with the reality of God’s existence, to be close to this All-Powerful Being Who created everything and sustains us daily.

On the other hand, we all live with the nagging fear of confronting the fact that we are not the captains of our ships. Each of us would like to be Number One. Our ego would prefer to see ourselves at the center of the universe, in total control of our own lives, our own destiny, and the world. So, we try convincing ourselves that we are, and in the process we push away God.

Shabbat is a tool to ensure we don’t misunderstand our place in the universe.

Shabbat is the Jewish tool to make sure we don’t misunderstand our place in the universe. Refraining from work is the first step toward accomplishing this goal. G-dgave mankind the power to manipulate and change the world. Because of this, we are easily lulled into thinking that we are in control of the world.

Then comes Shabbat. Once every seven days, we step back from the world and make a statement to ourselves and humanity that we are not in charge of this world. We stop all creative work and acknowledge that it is God’s world, not ours. We can manipulate the world, but we don’t own it. G-dgives us clear guidelines for how we may shape the world, but it’s not ours to do with as we see fit all the time.

When we refrain from work on Shabbat, we regain clarity and understanding as to Who is the true Creator.

The Primary Goal of Shabbat

Once we’ve extracted ourselves from the illusions of our own power and prominence (i.e. once we realize we’re not God), we free ourselves to reach out and experience the primary goal of Shabbat: getting in touch with God. While it is true that we can get in touch with G-dand spirituality during the week, it only happens if we make a particular effort to partake of these experiences. We have to fight off the influences of the mundane workday in order to break through to the spiritual.

On Shabbat, however, the spiritual level of the world is intensified. G-dimmerses us in a spiritual environment, and our perception of His closeness is heightened. It’s as if the static has been lifted.

On Shabbat, as I cease to create, I no longer feel the need to compete with the world around me. I don’t drive my car, I don’t work my animal, I don’t even pluck a blade of grass. Instead of imposing our will upon the world, we are in harmony with it.

On Shabbat, rather than imposing our will on the world, we are in harmony with it.

On Shabbat, we are all kings. We take advantage of the extra spirituality infused in the Shabbat day to focus on our spiritual goals, which we express through the prayer service, the learning of Torah, festive meals, and time spent with family and friends. For one day, there is no competition. There is only flow.

This is what is referred to in the second commandment as “resting.” On Shabbat, the hard effort to get in touch with G-dcomes naturally. The soul has what it’s seeking. It’s at rest.

Shabbat is our break. It empowers us, not to discard our workaday world, but to retain our ability to be independent from it. Shabbat gives balance and perspective to our lives and to our week. A cube, which has six sides, receives form and substance from its solid centre. So too, the six days of our week are balanced by Shabbat ― the inner dimension.

The Tabernacle Connection

If we’re going to refrain from work on Shabbat, we need to know how the Torah defines “work.” The rules may surprise you: Lugging a 50-pound sack of potatoes from room to room on Shabbat is technically permissible, while flicking on a light switch is forbidden.


It is not “work” which is prohibited on Shabbat; rather it is the special category of work called melacha. This term refers to the 39 types of creative activities which were used to build the Tabernacle, the portable sanctuary used by the Jews during the time of Moses and Joshua. These 39 activities include, for example, planting, cooking, and writing.

The Tabernacle was the physical place where the experience of G-dwas more directly tangible than at any other place on earth. Similarly, Shabbat is the period of time in which God’s presence is felt more intensely than at any other time during the week. In other words, just as the Tabernacle is holiness in “space,” Shabbat is holiness in “time.”

Shabbat is an anywhere-in-the-world, expense-free vacation. No travel agent required.

On Shabbat, therefore, the activities used to build the Tabernacle are completely unnecessary, since Shabbat is already a “sanctuary in time.” Shabbat has stability and permanence that transcend the limitations of space. It’s an anywhere-in-the-world, expense-free vacation ― no travel agent required. God’s presence is with us simply by virtue of the atmosphere Shabbat brings.

This explains why on Shabbat we are not supposed to concern ourselves with any unfinished business left over from the weekday. Instead, we are supposed to feel that everything is complete. Shabbat itself marks a completion of our goals.

The Bang Of Shabbat

What is the experience of Shabbat, and how do you get in touch with it?

Imagine you’re in a room with someone who says, “I want to be able to tell if it’s light or dark in this room. How should I do that?” You say, “That’s easy. Just open your eyes and see if it’s light or dark.” He says, “You don’t understand. Anyone can do that. I want to be able to smell the difference between light and dark.” You say, “You can’t smell the difference between light and dark.” He says, “How about tasting it?” “You can’t taste the difference.” In order to tell the difference between light and dark, you have to use your eyes.”


That’s exactly the problem with Shabbat. It’s a different experience than what we may be used to. To connect with Shabbat, you have to get in touch with your sixth sense. With your soul.

At the end of Shabbat, we have a ceremony called Havdalah, which means “separation.” We make a blessing to thank G-dfor separating between the holy and the mundane, and between light and dark.

The difference between the holy and the mundane is as clear as day and night. “Mundane” is the static and distractions of daily activities ― shopping, commuting, computing. “Holy” is the soul yearning for contact with its Creator. Your soul doesn’t want food or sleep. Your soul is nourished through spirituality, and it will not feel fulfilled until it gets it.

Shabbat is designed to facilitate the soul’s contact with spirituality ― with God. We free our attention from the pressures of the workday and focus on our spiritual goals, which are built into the fabric of the day through the prayer services, the festive meals, the learning of Torah, time spent with family and friends.

Keeping Shabbat

Shabbat is not only Judaism’s best spiritual tool, but historically it has also been the litmus test of whether an individual or family will remain a vibrant part of the Jewish people. The famous maxim says:

“More than the Jew has kept Shabbat, Shabbat has kept the Jew.”

A true story:

Bnei Brak is a city in Israel with a largely religious population. There once was a fellow living there who wasn’t a religious man, but since he lived in the area, he sent his daughter to a yeshiva. After learning for a few years in yeshiva, the daughter decided she wanted to observe the Shabbat. Since the family did not want to observe Shabbat, fights broke out every week between the parents and their daughter.

One Friday afternoon, the daughter went to the local store to buy candles for Shabbat. The storeowner, who knew that the family did not observe the Shabbat, assumed the girl wanted yahrtzeit candles and gave her two of them. (Yahrtzeit candles are lit in memory of the deceased on the date of his or her death.)

That night, while her parents were downstairs, the girl went quietly to her room to light the candles. After a while, her parents went to check on her. As they opened the door, they saw the yahrtzeit candles burning. “Who are these for?” they asked.

“One is for Daddy,” she said, “and one is for Mommy.”

The irony of their daughter’s words hit home. Without the Shabbat, they came to realize, it’s only a matter of time before their connection to Jewish continuity would die forever. Slowly the parents began to make their way back to a stronger, more vibrant Jewish lifestyle.

A Practical Way To Start

If Shabbat seems like a daunting undertaking, remember that in Judaism it’s not “all or nothing.” Even one moment of consciously refraining from doing melacha on Shabbat is a powerful opportunity to get in touch with yourself and God.

Try it for a few hours and increase the amount of time as you feel more comfortable.

How to start? Have your friends over for Friday night dinner. Light the candles, make Kiddush, sing some songs, and share words of Torah. (You can discuss the “Portion of the Week,” or pick a topic like “Free Will” or “The Afterlife.”)

But make one rule: No outside entertainment. No radio, no television, no telephone, no internet. Try it for a few hours and increase the amount of time as you feel more comfortable. The key is to relinquish control of the universe and get in touch with the Almighty.

Finally, here’s an exercise that can really get you in the mood. At sundown this Friday, take a minute and do the following: Clench your fists tight for 60 seconds. Then let go.

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