Condolences on the the passing of Hazel Aremband mother of Gary Aremband, mother-in-law of Debbie Aremband    Condolences on the passing of Sarah Joseph mother of Michael Joseph, Jonathan Joseph and Ian Joseph.    Condolences on the passing of Charlie Goralsky father of Trevor Goralsky, Milton Goralsky, and brother of Louis Goralksy and Jack Goralsky     Condolences on the passing of Hazel Aremband mother of Gary Aremband, mother-in-law of Debbie Aremband     Condolences on passing of Lionel Levinsohn husband of Joyce Levinsohn, father of Della Lawrence and Steven Levinsohn, David and Lawrence Levinsohn     Condolences on the passing of Dennis Jacobs husband of Molly Jacobs, father of Gavin Jacobs, Wyona Efune, Harene Sueltz and Elana Jacobs.     Mazeltov to Lisa daughter of Paul and Fiona Minsker on the occasion of her engagement to Ryan son of Jos and the late Jonny Miller.    Condolences on the passing of Robin Zidels father in Toronto

10 Things You Can Do To Prepare For Rosh Hashanah

10 THINGS YOU CAN DO TO PREPARE FOR ROSH HASHANAH

 

  1. Take a spiritual accounting. Each day take at least 5 minutes to review your last year — a) your behavior with family, friends, associates, and people you’ve interacted with b) your level of mitzvah
  2. Attend a class or classes at a synagogue, Aish center, or a yeshiva on how to prepare. Read articles on com and listen to world-class speakers on aishaudio.com, or at Rabbizweig.com.
  3. Study the Machzor (Rosh Hashanah prayer book) to know the order of the service and the meaning of the words and prayers. You can buy a copy of The Rosh Hashanah/Yom Kippur Survival Kit, by Rabbi Shimon Apisdorf (possibly available at your local Jewish bookstore or at com).
  4. Make sure that you have given enough tzedakah (charity) and have paid your pledges (one is supposed to give 10% of his net income). It says in the Machzor that three things break an evil decree – Teshuva (repentance), Tefilla (prayer) and Tzedakah (charity). Why not maximize your chance for a good decree?
  5. Think of (at least) one person you have wronged or feel badly towards — and correct the situation.
  6. Make a list of your goals for yourself and your family – what you want to work towards and pray for.
  7. Limit your pleasures — the amount of television, movies, music, food — do something different so that you take this preparation time seriously.
  8. Do an extra act of kindness — who needs your help? To whom can you make a difference?
  9. Read a book on character development — anything written by Rabbi Zelig Pliskin would be great!
  10. Ask a friend to tell you what you need to improve. A real friend will tell you … but in a nice way!

2020 Sandton Shul Batmitzvah Ceremony